The Mothelode Summer 2024

“Parents must remember this is the child’s journey.” - Crystee Ballard

Master Tommy Lee, East Coast Martial Arts “Martial arts isn’t just about self-defense. It [infuses] numerous benefits for children. It instills discipline: Martial arts requires following rules and routines. Children learn to follow instructions, respect instructors, and commit to consistent practice. This structured environment teaches self-discipline, [imbuing] in children dedication and perseverance. For parents, this means better behavior and responsibility at home. Students learn fair play at competition, respecting opponents, and congratulating their competitors regardless of outcome. This promotes camaraderie and mutual respect, essential components of sportsmanship. Parents benefit when their children develop positive social interactions and a respectful attitude, improving relationships inside and outside the studio.” T. Michelle Davy, Owner & Director, Davy Dance Academy “Remember that each child athlete/dancer is on their own journey and everyone progresses at their own pace. Rather than compare your child to another child or to their friend,

Master Tommy Lee taking a hands-on approach to teaching his student Grace the mechanics of a roundhouse kick. Photo courtesy of Master Tommy Lee.

compare your child to where they were last season. Their individual growth is what will help them in the long run. Obviously there are team goals, but as a coach, my goal is always looking at the individual dancer and watching them progress. We can celebrate their successes and it’s not just about the [final result]. If you’re comparing yourself to yourself six months ago, you can see improvement. Trust the process! It’s not a sprint. We are going for the long haul. Trust that we have the best interest of your child at heart.”

“Rather than compare your child to another child or to their friend, compare your child to where they were last season. Their individual growth is what will help them in the long run.” - T. Michelle Davy

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